Moms are the best things that ever happened in the
world. On May 11th every year, we celebrate 'Mother's Day' as an
opportunity to express our love, respect and gratitude to our mothers
for all the things she has done for us. Alchemy Webmedia has tried to
consolidate the origin, history, legends and stories of this very
special day, just for you.
The roots of Mother's Day go back to the ancient festivals dedicated to
mother goddess. In the ancient Greek empire, Rhea, the wife of Cronus,
and mother of Gods and Goddesses, was worshipped and honored at this
time every year in a spring celebration. In Rome too, Cybele, a mother
Goddess, was worshipped, as early as 250 BC. It was known as Hilaria,
and it lasted for three days, called the Ides of March, that is from
March 15 to March 18. In more recent times, during the 1600s, England
observed "Mothering Sunday", or the "Mid-Lent-Sunday, on
the fourth Sunday in Lent. It was quite identical to the modern-day
celebrations.
In England where small chapels of ease served the ordinary needs of the
country parishioners, the people went on Mid-Lent Sunday to the 'Mother
Church' of the parish, laden with offerings. The historians hypothesize
that the Mother Church was substituted for Mother Goddess by the early
church, who adopted the ancient Roman ceremonies in honor of Cybele to
venerate Mother Mary. And this is why it became customary to visit the
church on the day of baptism or on Mother's Day.
The custom began for those working away from homes to return to their
homes on Mothering Sunday with small gifts, or, mothering cakes for
their mothers. Back home they presented their mothers with a cake and
little nosegays of violets and other wild flowers gathered in the
hedgerows as they walked along the country lanes. Whole families
attended church together and there was a dinner of roast lamb, or veal,
at which mother was treated as queen of the feast. Everything was done
to make her happy. The custom of Mothering Sunday became more widespread
during the 19th century. Any youth engaged in such act of duty was said
to go 'amothering'. They day was celebrated with a festive mood
appropriate to that day. The prominent dish was called furmety. It was a
dish of wheat grains boiled in sweet milk, sugared and spiced.
In the northern part of England and Scotland there had been a custom of
having steeped peas fried in butter, with pepper and salt. Pancakes so
prepared passed by the name of carlings. It was so popular that from it
Carling Sunday became a local name for the day.
The mothering cake also went by the name of Simnel cake. This was a
very rich fruit cake, the richer the better. For, the Lenten fast
dictated that it must keep until Easter. First boiled in water and then
baked, it sometimes had an almond icing. At other times the crust was of
flour and water, colored with saffron. The word Simnel comes from the
Latin Simila, which means high-grade wheat flour.
The customs of the Mothering Sunday in England started to decline with
the changing pattern of the society following the Industrial Revolution.
In the United States, Anna M. Jarvis (1864-1948) is credited with
bringing in the celebration of Mother's day. Anna Jarvis intended to
start a Mother's Day as an honoring of mothers. The idea itself was so
great that it did not take long to be spread all over. Leaving aside the
first observance, the official recognition that followed for the
observance came in galore. The governor of West Virginia issued the
first Mother's Day proclamation in 1910. Oklahoma celebrated it in that
same year. It stirred the same way in as far west as the state of
Washington. And by 1911, there was not a state in the Union that did not
have its own observances for Mother's Day. Soon it crossed the national
boundary, as people in Mexico, Canada, South America, China, Japan and
Africa all joined the spree to celebrate a day for mother love.
The immense popularity of the Day led to foundation of Mother's Day
International Association on December 12, 1912. Its purpose was to
promote and encourage meaningful observances of the event across the
world. It was in 1934 Postmaster General James A. Farley announced a
stamp to commemorate Mother's Day. The stamp featured the famous
painting "Arrangement in Grey and Black". The painting was a
portrait of the mother of James Abbott McNeill Whistler, an English
artist. It was brought in to the United States as part of an exhibit in
the year 1934.


